As we continue to mourn the death of Nelson Mandela, there is so much to celebrate as well. I have watched countless TV segments, read numerous articles about his life, I am reminded of his incredible leadership qualities that I strive to live in my own life: His Endless Courage to speak up and speak out against the brutality despite the threats to his own life; His Incredible Commitment to Serve his country and the world no matter his age; but most of all, I am inspired by his Tremendous Capacity to Forgive. (Scroll down to view a beautiful tribute poem from Maya Angelou.)
Forgiveness is a powerful tool to end the suffering and create peace. While this may be simple, it is definitely not easy. Mandela suffered for decades at the hands of the prison guards and the Apartheid government. Tens of thousands of his brothers and sisters jailed, beaten or worse…left for dead in the streets.
The crimes against humanity were horrific. Mandela had more than enough reasons to seek revenge, but he knew it would only extend the suffering; more lives would be lost. Forgiveness would be the key to bring the country together, create a unified country rather than one of suffering and segregation.
Committed to a larger goal, a bigger vision, he worked through the pain and found a place of peace. First within himself, he then worked to create that for his country. It wasn’t about forgetting what happened, but about healing the pain for the greater good of the country. When we hold onto the resentment, we hold ourselves back, we limit our impact, we limit our power. By letting go, we can attain something far greater than ourselves. By Mandela’s capacity to forgive, he was able to attain something incredible for his country and the world.
While Mandela practiced Forgiveness and created Peace on the world’s stage, we can follow his lead and create peace within our families, our businesses, and our communities by practicing forgiveness. Where are you holding onto resentment, seeking some revenge in your life? Where can you practice forgiveness for the commitment of a larger goal, a larger vision for a friendship, partnership or business?
In celebration of Nelson Mandela’s life, I invite you this week to seek out the greater good and practice forgiveness where a relationship is strained. Take the first step in creating a sense of peace this holiday season.
Thank you Nelson Mandela for your countless contributions
to the world. You will always be remembered!